Cadet should be along soon to post his standard "welcome" message.
You would do well to speak with a lawyer, even though you are not legally M. It could depend on how common law would deal with the disentanglement properly and there may be more than just the sale of the home at stake.
As you've been reading other topics for a while, pick up the DR book and set yourself on a path of growth and detachment through GAL and 180s and becoming an even more awesome woman that only a fool would leave.