Just filed...

[Mimi00]

Since you're not to talk about the relationship, I don't see anything wrong with ending your phone conversation with him if you had nothing more to say. You're detaching.

On the one hand, I think this radio silence stuff is giving me a chance to regain my dignity -- I've spent the last few months chasing hard. On the other, I'm getting really bummed because this feels like game playing on both our ends -- and also (I recognize that this is mindreading on my part)

I totally understand what you are saying in the above, my sitch is similar in the fact that my H and I are in different states.... so "acting as if" and not calling/texting him seems like a game.

All the best to you!