I'm having the same issues & I very much understand your thought process as I am in a similar boat. Yes, patience, patience, patience. We all need it. I wish you the best on your journey.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
