Oh, another few thoughts that've been percolating in my head a lot lately:
I feel very alone. I have a small circle of close friends, but they're all happily (seemingly, anyway) married and have all their parents. I very much feel like an outsider.
And, unlike 99% of the people out there (obviously this forum is an exception), I don't take divorce lightly. I consider my divorce to a be a personal failure. It makes me feel like a broken person, unworthy of happiness and unfit to be in another relationship.
Jeez, I knew I was going to get way too heavy once I got started.