I can't help but look for signals of confusion. I want to believe even though he appears to be on this singular-lane road toward OW that he really isn't sure about his path at all.
A friend of mine said definitely NOT to entertain the idea of going on a vacation with him and boys even if he invites me to come (for whatever reason). That I should use this time to find out what it is like to be by myself and to embrace this time. I agree, although I am very doubtful H would invite me on this trip anyway.
H's dad/ my FIL is coming out (1 1/2 hrs) to see boys' baseball games on Saturday. After games we would normally hang out at the house w him for a couple of hours. HOWEVER, I do NOT want to do this, as I feel like it is time for H to realize his choices mean that some things are NOT going to be the same.
Any thoughts?
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.