C - respect should be her not discussing OM with you, period. I'm not sure how you do it, I wouldn't be able to listen to that. Unless you're alright with that I think you need to figure out a way to shut that down ASAP.
I also think you need to avoid these types of conversations for a while. Typing on this IPad is slow as hell for me so can't elaborate now but I see more then just frustration in what you texted.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
