Be careful, Alan. I think she will keep trying to make you jump through hoops. She'uses people for what she wants at that particular moment, and then kicks them aside. She doesn't doesn't respect a gentle, good-hearted man. If she ever really falls for anyone, it will probably be a man who is bad to her, and then she will find her and will find herself catering to him.
Yes, life can be like a kick in the head, but I believe there are still some great women out there. I just don't happen to believe she's one of them, based on what you've tod us......and based on knowing other females who seem to be like you've described.
I have a relative who was very selfish as a child. I don't know that she knew what it was to hear the word "no", or she just made life hell for everyone u til they gave in. She tricked a good boy into M and they had three children. She was horrible to him and they finally D. She has been in several M and who knows how many short term R. Today, she is middle age and looks like an old "streetwalker". The saddest part is she's alone. None of her friendships and relationships ever last due to how she treats them.
One day you meet the girl that deserves you..........but this woman sure doesn't.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
