is it too late to say to h ... maybe via text (as accuray posted on another thread:

h, yesterday you said you were scatterbrained and can't make decisions anymore. I'm sorry you feel that way, that must be a challenging thing to deal with. I'm sure you will figure it out, I am here if you ever want to talk about it. I hope you feel better!"

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)