TX suggests that 30% of my net income go to child support (for our 3 children). Standard in shared custody would be to split that in half, less 15% of her net income. How do I go about communicating to her that she isn't going to be a stay-at-home-mom anymore? She has plenty of earning potential. I'll offer some years of spousal support rather than fund that. I'm lost as far as how DB this discussion/thinking is. I've been urged to try not to roll over and play nice with her through this. I think that is best no matter what.
