Did he bring up all that stuff from the past or did you? The problem with that type of thinking is that he is still looking for the OUTSIDE SOURCE for his "pain". What he doesn't realize is that his pain comes from within. There are many other people who break up and hookup right away and have perfectly happy marriages. It comes down to your own personal attitude.
He is still looking for something/someone to blame. And unfortunately it often happens that they decide that the person closest to them is the cause of their ills.
In order to change his thinking, you have to remove yourself from the picture so that when he looks around, he won't have anyone else to blame.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
