I finally had a brief talk with my H. We talked about how it had only been 2 months since he had broken up with his previous GF before starting to date me. (He wasn't even 21 at the time.) He swore to himself and his buddies that he wouldn't get into a serious relationship right away. But he met me and we did. He pursued me (calling daily) even when I tried getting him to back off.
Now he is regretting it.
He feels like he's never had the opportunity to live on his own. His own place, paying his own bills, buying his own food, coming/going whenever and not answering to anyone.
He went from living with his parents, to living in his grandparents home (parents owned it and used to rent it out to people) with a buddy, then I moved in. We got married and moved in with his parents.
This is why he wants a divorce.
Instead of making the effort to get our own place and live as a married couple instead of in his parents basement, he wants to break up and live on his own.
I can understand his feelings but at the same time, I want the chance to live and act like were married instead of always checking in with his parents.
Most of our money is tied up in debt consolidation so we can't move out right now. Trust me...I wish we could.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!
Me39 H35 M8 T14 Early 5/12 H FB post re: his love for me. End 5/12 H done trying, writes "Dear John" letter 6/12 Wants D, calls ATTY, no file 1/13 Loves me, wants to try, moves home 3/13 Changes mind
