Hi Anniekate, thanks for your post. I think you've hit on something there at the end: they have just been thinking about it for so long, they've just GOT to take action. Perhaps for fear of losing their nerve?
I mean, is their need for escape really that great that they would allow their children to experience that pain? Oh wait, that's right: yes, they are. It's sad.
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