I don't think she's bluffing, just extremely conflicted - which I think is obvious as we are almost 18 months into post BD and still no D.
BUT, you are (of course) correct. If she has maintained both verbally and with the divorce proceedings that she is set on following through with divorce, then I have to accept those very tangible facts and respect them. I suppose it's her own fault for sending such mixed signals, but the constant has been very slow progress to divorce.
I'm going to do my thing. Her move.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
