I understand KD and I will be there cheering loudly, that was never an issue. And, I will have fun, it is a great group of parents.
W does want more spontaneity but with kids, that has been tougher to do. I used to be good at it, but not so much lately.
On a really positive note, I was in a two hour meeting and when I came out W had texted me "My review went well. Coworker took tickets. I will make it up to you!" That was nice to see.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"