No longer treading water, must either sink or swim

[Grizz]

Thanks Semper. Hopefully I can help someone.

Hey PF, haven't seen you around in a while. Thanks for your comments. I have come to accept my sitch and accept that she is leaving. Not sure if the acceptance makes it any easier though.

I still don't know if I am going to help her move. She may not even want me to. It hasn't been discussed.

My anger has really been tough to get over. More hurt than anger I guess. I just withdraw alot and it comes across as me being a big ole prick.

I do need to let her go or I will go insane. I believe either JP or Chris has said the same thing.

I will definitively look into the PDF. Thanks again. I am going to go look for your update.