It's just really difficult -- for example, he called just now, the first time in about 2 weeks, in order to find out when the divorce would be finalized. I said I didn't know, would let him know when I did, and said good bye. Like, less than 2 minutes. Perfectly civil but much more distant than I'm accustomed to being. Normally I'd've asked him how he was, or whatever, but I'm trying to practice that detachment thing. Was that okay? What could I have done instead?
Me: 30 H: 29 M: 2 yrs T: 5 years BD: 12/14/12 Divorce talk begins 1/6/13 I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since
