In the end he stormed off to bed, a few minutes later H came out and said " For what it's worth, over the last three months there have been times that I wish I could have turned back the clock but I can't, I'm in to deep,I've made a commitment to her".
I stupidly said it's still not to late, why can't we give it a try??? H just said I can't....
Wow, practically verbatim what my W told me.
I see you found the online 5LL quiz. Here's the link for anyone else reading who is interested.
Regarding your "goodbye", don't dwell on your mistakes. Learn from them and move past them.
Regarding your thread title: when I first read it I thought you meant chemistry with you, but after reading your posts it appears you meant his chemistry with OW. Is that correct? Or has he told you there is still chemistry between the two of you as well?
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.