Pm, I don't want to deactivate my account! :p I enjoy it and seeing my dds goofy messages makes my day. I used to me really unconfident about posting anything but through this last year I've made a lot of new friends and have 'found myself' a bit more.
What I should do is block H so I can't see him & he can't see me, but that's where I think it'd be sending the wrong message for where we are now. If anything, maybe him reactivating his account is a sign of him wanting to rengage with his dds at least. I just have to put up with it I guess.
If things go south then I'll be blocking him but for now I'm being patient woman.