Hotwheelsaust - I feel so for you that you have kids & couldn't just run off on your anniversary. At least I just have dogs whom my WAH has agreed to come feed. I still am starting to feel the pain more & it is only the day before. I want so badly to say "hey you WAH - do you even remember the promise you made 15 years ago tomorrow? Do you even remember that our anniversary is tomorrow" But I CAN'T if I want this to work DB style.
Even harder is the WAS is the one I could confide in - now not only I can't do that, but I am not burdening my friends with it because I am sure they are sick of hearing about it & I don't want to be that girl.
I can't decide if having kids would have made it more difficult or easier. I guess you can't really tell that stuff to your kids either. At least I can tell my dogs & my horse LOL.


Me 54 H 53
T 19
M 15 (2nd both), 0 kids, 2 dogs, 1 horse
H open heart surg12-12-12
H dropped bomb 3-5-13
H moved to lounge ~3-13-13
H rented house w/friend 4-6-13
H moved out 4-13-13