I have defintely been the planner, but she has gotten the sitter and she has said, both to me and in therapy, how much she has enjoyed them. So, I probably need to continue to plan if we are going to do them.

Also, we didn't agree on a frequency, but to get back to how we used to be, which was 2-3/ month. Sometimes planned, sometimes just dinner out.

So, you are suggesting doing nothing today? Just pretend nothing happened?

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"