I may have missed it before, do you have a lawyer?
Trying to divorce without a lawyer will only work if there is open communication and both sides want to make it work. There were portions of my divorce that we were able to decide between us, but at that point we both wanted the process to be over as quickly as possible.
seeing that her father is a lawyer, and communication between you two is non-existent, then i think its in your best interest to also have a lawyer to get the process moving. Once the basic framework is in place, then maybe you two can work out the details between yourselves.
as difficult as it is, you must remove all emotions and feelings from the discussion. and work only with facts and figures and laws.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
