T, I completely understand this. But that is definitely something you need to work on. You know that though. If she thinks that is the reason for you not helping that will be a very bad thing. Im not trying to mindread your W, but based on some of her responses in your text I think she thinks that is part of the reason. If one good thing has come out of this for me is that it has helped with my jealous and controlling ways. You cant control what she does or does not do on vacation. You know that. Also, I understand your being fearful of having kids that long. Tust me, I just had my 3 year old for 10 days. Its was tough, but so worth it in the end. Got to spend some great time with him
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
