Quote: One day at a time, one step at a time, one project at a time. A life is rebuilt.
WOW PAM!!! That is one he!! of a quote !! Paste that on your mirror, your comp, the dog crates, the windows...heck anywhere that a post-it note will stick!!!!
That quote sums it up pretty aptly Kevin.
YOU know what works and what doesn't...as long as you continue to allow yourself to be CONTROLLED by W though you are going to have just more of what DOESN'T. You control you...that is the only guaranteed thing in the whole sitch.
You keep asking for help in putting together a game plan...no one can TELL you how to do that, each sitch IS different. All yo can do is apply yourself to some of the advice that has been given and find out for yourself what will work and what won't. Like lettie said though...you have to do it for more then a few hours a day or a week. Sometimes the babysteps can only be measured in millimeters and might take MONTHS to come to full fruition...but even a millimeter forward is better then a mile back.
Hugz, Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi
