There are possible career opportunities, a new place, etc. That is great! With or without your W, these are things that are good to pursue!
What is likely happening is you are worrying about things that may or may not happen. Try to understand that you can always change your mind, later. Right now, your W does not want to be with you. She might be confused, but you can not live your life based on a hope that she may change her mind. Even if she does, you have no way of knowing if that will be tomorrow or a year from now. Right now, your decisions need to be how YOUR life will benefit into the future.
Having said that, as I mentioned you can always change your mind at a later date. You also can make sure that your life is positioned to accept SOMEONE into your life at some future time. It could be a new love or it could be your W. You are not closing a door to the possibility of having someone in your life.
You DO need to move forward. Your W can always join you, later. You may feel like you are leaving her behind, yet the reality is, she is choosing to be where she is, right now. If she stays stuck, there is nothing you can do about it. Nor is there anything you can do if she changes her direction to "move further away from you".
All you can do is keep your boundaries, move forward, and burn no bridges.
