I have ignored all client calls, and he has not called or texted. We have appointments for today, that I just don't want to deal with. I don't want to face him either.
Do I reply to his text? if so, what do I say?
Now that I have done what I have done, what do I do. I am trying to be dim, but hard to do and work together. He notices that I end the convo's early, and he wonders what "work" I do all day when I am not contacting him.
He mentioned that he was surprised that I did give him the space that he asked for, he was surprised that I could do it. I said that I had no other choice.
PON, I didnt mean for it to come across as an ultimatum... just that I loved him and was letting go, if he was not able to commit.
Mr. Bond, I am still on meds and cannot afford a therapist. And yes, I am the doormat... afraid to do anything to stand up for myself for fearing of disappointing him and/or making him mad... like NOW.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
