Grizz, sounds like you are getting great advice and may be in a better place this week.
Thanks for sharing your situation, it has been helpful to many.
Thoughts and prayers are with you - stay strong!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork