Why does she get to spend $4000 on lawyers and leave you without the opportunity to do the same? You need to have the money for both, but my guess is you disagree as to how much $ can be earmarked for the legal process...
Also: $4k JUST FOR THE RETAINER? Insanity.
-PM
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