Hi Papa4life - I had exactly the same thing - W came home, said we were done and told our Son the next day.

It will be the hardest thing you've ever done. I swear I could see the exact second when our Sons heart broke in half.

I have no advice I'm afraid - but try your hardest to be strong for your kids - they will need you more than ever.

Thoughts are with you.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013