Thanks JP! The more you distance the easier it will get. I promise.
I use to worry constantly about going to see my son and then being around W and how it was going to effect my attitude. I was always worried what if we talk about this or what if this comes up. Having no expectations takes away the "walking on eggshells"
It allows me to just be me again which seems to cause more positive intercation.
Having said that, i still try to distant myself where I can. I will take son outside to play or we will leave and go to park.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it