kevin, look back on your threads...yes, the same thing keeps happening over and over again. Honestly, some people can see where you efforts are not going to be worth it, but if you see some hope at all, you have to really put DBing into practice...not for one day, not even for a week, but for a good long while. You say you want to move on...that is what you should do, but you can move on and DB at the same time. She is yanking your chain by telling you she is moving, getting a new apartment, yada, yada, yada...and she wants a rise out of you, IMO. And it is working. Like a month ago, you are all over the place...again. You are going to have to tell yourself to not react to what she tells you. You are going to have to tell yourself you cannot be called on a whim with you diving into her demands just because she needs you. From here on out, you know what this is going lead to. You are going in circles. I wouldn't blame you one bit for REALLY moving on, but this is not my sitch, it is yours, and it is clear you are hurting but want the M desperately and don't know what to do. So don't do anything. Make some friends, do other things, and make yourself get out there. Put her on the backburner...and when she starts her neediness, just remember what happened the last time it happened...she told you to get your own life. So do it.
