Hit hard still taking another step forward.

[T1000]

I don't want to take another week off work.

The thought of having a 1 year old and 3 year old for 7-9 days straight by myself is going to be hard work too.


At the same time I will get to have my kids for the week. I will have a full week to bond with them and have some fun.
I follow through something my W thought was happening whether it was or wasn't.

I get to get past insecure jealous thoughts of her on girly vacation.

Hard to say what is best for me because each action I take has a reaction good or bad. I suppose that goes back to what you were saying about thinking A vs. B etc.