DBing European Style, part 2

[Papa4Life]

W e-mailed to say that, since S11's kids b-day party will likely be postponed, she wants to tell the kids about D this weekend. I don't understand her rush, I really don't. Well...I suppose she's itching to move forward, but is she really willing to put the kids through that?

It might be that she wants to cut that last thread between us, and that's fine. I can accept that. But we're going to be living together for at least a couple of months still, so why saddle them with this burden now?

I replied saying that I thought it could wait, but I suppose she has her reasons and I suggested talking about it later.

W has never been what you call flexible once she's made a decision, so I might not have much of a say in this either, like so many times throughout our M.

So it goes.