If I follow through and give her the week off could be seen as weak because I caved. If I don't I'm the spiteful a**hole.
Can you tell I'm manic about this!?!
IMO I don't see it as caving. In her mind you agreed to it. If you can get it off great, if not then you tried.
You both need to take a break to cool off, but this needs addressed.
Let the work begin
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy