This never stops. Just when i think i am doing well, he manages to get to me again.
Tonight XH messaged the kids on Facebook. He said that he was thinking of buying an apartment in the city and asked how many bedrooms he should get (i.e., will they come to stay with him).
The gall of the man. Apartments in our city are around the $600,000 - 1 mill mark. He doesn't even pay school fees or provide CS.
Last night I got a call from a debt collections agency for him, and another from his credit card bank who said they were having trouble finding him to discuss a personal banking matter (they have been ringing here for a week, and I know his cc is over-drawn).
I presume he is simply delusional about this apartment, but on the other hand, he may just be spending some stashed amount. OR "Miss Moneybags" as my XMIL calls OW, may be stumping up the money.
Within 5 mins of receiving the message, S14 and D17 were attacking each other viciously over who should use the bathroom first.