Please take care of yourself. This is an extremely stressful time for you. I'm glad to read that you've sought legal counsel. You may need to pull that info out if he gets too out of this world on what he thinks is fair at some point.
No matter what happens, you will survive and go on to live a full life.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
