I have sought legal council, two different ones actually, and they both advised me of the same things, so I am full aware of my rights. I don't like the idea of mediation either. We don't have much to fight over, so while it makes sense to do so, I am not sure that H will see what I am entitled to and will agree. Heck, I mentioned as much yesterday when he started with what he felt fair, etc. I had my business hat on all the way.
NLW/Wishing - I am sorry that you have/had gone through the similar words. So hurtful aren't they? But in the end we will all survive.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life