Kevin, you should do whatever your heart tells you to do. But when something happens, you need to ultimately remember that you made the decision, not her, to handle the sitch the way you wanted to. Sounds like she is being upfront with you, so the way you handle it is YOUR responsibility. You know what works and what doesn't. But you never know, maybe she will start appreciating what you do for her. I'm just not sure your doing all of these things, even for Valentine's Day, will get her away from OM, because he seems somewhat unattainable to her. Funny how some are attracted to those who do the least for them...but it does happen...sort of like DBing...especially when they don't HAVE them like they want them. It is attractive to them. This is your M and you should do what you feel. Good luck to you.
