Wife is having an emotional affair

[25yearsmlc]

Today W texted me to ask if I took the toothpicks. I took some but there was another box in the medicine cabinet. I told her so but she said there weren't any and asked me to bring some back.

Alan, listen to me, WTF???

...WAKE UP!! Tell her to get her own toothpicks or keep looking for them. She's nuts. OR HANG UP ON HER...what do we KNOW?

WE KNOW She cheated on you and still is, and she is leaving you. Those are FACTS....she has more nerve than anyone I know who isn't in jail...

the rest of this is confusion b/c of your pain. Smoke and mirrors...CLEAR YOUR HEAD and

Get a grip and enforce some boundary....you CANNOT let her talk to you like that AND believe she'll ever regain respect for you.

without respect for you, there won't be love. OR self esteem...which you need to re build asap.



I told her that I wasn't home and wouldn't be for at least an hour. Then she started asking where I was and what I was doing. I wanted to tell her none of your business but I was polite. I wanted to go pickup some mail so after I got home I asked if she still wanted the toothpicks. She did so I took some over.

were you just using that as an excuse for contact? To show her the new strong you? She's not your "wife" right now. Let OM bring her some tooth picks

OR let her look for them a bit harder. What is she, 12?




When I got there I found the box that she said wasn't there, grabbed the mail, then asked if she would be available tomorrow to go get my name off the lease. She said she was busy. I told her that we need to go get my name removed from the lease. I know I sounded annoyed. She said she would try to make time but OM was coming over.

Alan, get your name OFF the lease. You do not need her permission or her presence.

For her to tell you that she is busy but she'll TRY to make time BUT gee, OM is coming over to the apartment you two were married and living in...and NOW YOU had to leave...

wow that's nerve.

And you don't see it?

You are not teaching her what she needs to see in you, which is a man who would NOT tolerate this.