T^2! Sounds like you and I have the same questions today. I'll start by saying, "get out of your own way!" Haha! Ok, I'm out of any advice. I just know how you and I operate.
Stay cool bro.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
-Solved an engineering problem at work yesterday. -Had a GREAT ride home, made excellent time and pushed myself. -Great meditation session. -An awesome workout, did some powerlifting and bested myself in a couple lifts.
Afterwards I felt right as rain.
I was happy to return some auto parts to the store and some other quick errands. Just regular life stuff but was content living it.
I think I threw W off by being that way again...The emails from her have resumed this morning and last evening, sending me stuff to print out for her EFT and issue resolving work, things with the kids, etc...
Snodderly is so right on.
lol, just a rollin' with it, back to focusing on today and what I can do to create a good day for myself and the kids, and yes, W too... T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
This is what I like to hear, T^2! Sounds like you had a great day.
I'm having a pretty good day, too. I tore through a project I'm working on, took care of some business with no trouble that W used to always handle, plus since work is going so well I even have time for a good run later, which was unexpected because I thought I would have to work all evening because I've got the twins at home tomorrow and W is going out with work tomorrow night AND Thursday night and the project is due Friday morning. Looks like we've both got our mojo workin'!
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13
I just heard this song on the radio, made me laugh, and had some wisdom...haven't posted any jukebox spins lately, so here goes...
38 SPECIAL - HOLD ON LOOSELY
"You see it all around you Good lovin' gone bad And usually it's too late when you, realize what you had And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago, Who told me Just Hold On Loosely But don't let go If you cling to tightly You're gonna lose control
Your baby needs someone to believe in And a whole lot of space to breathe in
It's so damn easy, when your feelings are such To overprotect her, to love her too much And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago
Who told me Just Hold On Loosely But don't let go If you cling too tight babe You're gonna loose control Your baby needs someone to believe in And a whole lot of space to breathe in Don't let her slip away
Sentimental fool Don't let your heart get in her way Yeah, yeah, yeah You see it all around you Good lovin' gone bad
And usually it's too late when you, realize what you had And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago Who told me
Just Hold On Loosely But don't let go If you cling to tightly You're gonna lose control Your baby needs someone to believe in And a whole lot of space to breathe in So Hold On Loosely
But don't let go If you cling too tight babe You're gonna lose it You're gonna, lose control"
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
great .38 Special song. I have heard it a couple of times during my scenario and thought "Man - how appropriate!"
nice to see you doing well T^2. I have followed your scenario closely.
Stay strong!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
