Most of the stuff I write is just journalling. However, if someone could come up with some advice for the following piece I'd be most grateful.
As I've stated before my wife wants to separate although we don't have the means to do so.
However, a couple of years ago as we were having our home done up we stayed in this home, rent free literally a minutes walk from our house. The place is a dump really. Not very pleasant but (just) liveable.
The wife has suggested I move there. I had contemplated the idea myself (but didn't tell her). My natural instinct is to decline it. If my w wants to separate then she can move. On the other hand it'll enable us to have our own space; it'll mean I could see the children whenever I wanted and the dreadful silence that consumes us when we are together would be banished. It would be slightly surreal but would it be beneficial?
I think the toll on my mind by my wife's declaration has addled my brain more than I thought it had. Struggling to come up with a coherent thought or idea at present.
Me: 42 W: 40 M: 18 T: 20 D13 D10 S7 BD: 8/2012 Still living together