First of all, did you read Jake1974's thread? How about Wiley's? Take the time to do this...you will learn a great deal of how you need to start handling you conversations with her. She has said what she wanted to say to you, and I still say for her to ask you to be intimate with her and then the next day say "oh, by the way, you should go and date" or "move on" or "can't do this anymore" should tell you what NOT to do. You can start by saying, next time you see this beginning to happen, "well, you know I've been thinking about what happened the last few times we were together. As you said, maybe we don't need this to happen right now. We have children to see to, and let's keep it at that for the time being." Act like you have come to terms with what it happening and be as upbeat as you can be. This I know -- as soon as they start to lose their control, they become angry, then needy, and then when they find out how easy it is to regain it, well, the same old thing happens usually. I think something has to change in the way YOU are handling this sitch, because I don't think she will, at least for now. Who knows what they are thinking?
