We'll see. I am definitely one of those people who spins a small positive encounter into much more, so I'm trying to be aware of that and just go slow. My intention is to try to just be friendly with women I meet with, and practice the process of getting to know someone, rather than jump into any sort of a R. It's been 18 years since I really last thought about these issues, so it's very weird.

In an odd way practicing DB has helped me with this next step. It's a way of approaching relationships with integrity, but not giving in to the anxious mess I am inside any time I'm trying to impress someone else.


H: 38 xW: 38
M: 16 T: 18
S: 9
BD: 2/2012
W moved out 4/2012
D: 11/2012