I tell you it is hard coming home to an empty house without the W around. My sitch I had xmas holidays to come home to a new tenant moved in with me, due to Education housing. No longer a family house but now shared housing. Haven't had shared accomadation in over 25 years. Also my youngest moved out the same time as the W and went back home to the city. So within a few weeks of the BD, I lost the W, son and had a new person (that I didn't know) move in. All I can say is while it is hard to do, it can be done. It also means it is no easy feat if the W ever decides to come back to me (not that it is expected) as I cannot force the other tenant to move out now.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.