"Patient".....My DD has not slept in my home in 6 weeks, my DS has only twice during that period of time. I now feel I'm losing my son too, if for no other reason than lack of contact (C says DS is following along with decisions/actions of older DD, like the little brother he is).
Something must change or this will become the new normal.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.