Thanks lovethehub, for that moment in time I finally was able to create the mindset that all of the wise people on this DB forum have been helping me with. It did feel pretty amazing after coming from being suicidal when my WAH told me ILYBINILWY. I am so happy I found this forum and read Michele's book.
Me 54 H 53 T 19 M 15 (2nd both), 0 kids, 2 dogs, 1 horse H open heart surg12-12-12 H dropped bomb 3-5-13 H moved to lounge ~3-13-13 H rented house w/friend 4-6-13 H moved out 4-13-13