Not a huge deal, CB. What I am getting at is, your W is, for some reason, pining over (past) life in the other community. You... ALSO... have some affinity to the other community.
I do get that. I get what it is like to get that feeling of, "[i]I so love (XYZ city)." Sometimes, there's no words or quantifiable value that one can put a finger on.
Yet, so far all I know based on what you've posted, is that you used to live there, you enjoyed your time there, and you still have season tickets to the basket ball team's games.
It's all "feel good" stuff.
Will the kids get a better education, there? Is the cost of living better, there? Can you get a better job, there? Can your W get a better job, there? Of the people you know there, do they really have the time to entertain you, or be entertained by you, now that their life is full of their own obligations and responsibilities?
What real VALUE would you and your children and your W have, if you were to move to the other community?
