Keep going back and forth on what to do next. The going dark isn't really working. No contact for 2 weeks and stopped snooping. Getting the urge to see where we're at with things.
I'm curious, if you discover the milk is bad do you put it back in the fridge and keep taking it out every few days to taste it and see if it's gotten better? Your M is dead. Every time you reach out to W to temperature check she's just going to remind you of that, but at the same time your reaching out will be putting pressure on her and will have the opposite effect of what you want it to. You'll drive her further and further away.
No, your right but aren't you hoping that if you do put it in back, Tht it's fresh milk?
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
Your M is dead. Every time you reach out to W to temperature check she's just going to remind you of that, but at the same time your reaching out will be putting pressure on her and will have the opposite effect of what you want it to. You'll drive her further and further away. 