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However, I too am confused and lonely. I feel good about myself and my changes. ILY but will understand and move on.

or should I ask him about the "positives" that he feels I went the other way with?

Im pretty certain that he wants me to reply to him....


This is all about you and what you want...

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I understand that you are confused and are having difficulty with what you are feeling.


You are diagnosing him...mlc'ers find that condescending...actually, most people might...idk.

IF you MUST reply, and it seems you will, try just texting:

"I'm sorry you feel that way..."

And then turn the damn phone off and do something for YOU, and make an appointment with a Lawyer first thing in the morning....!

Just my 2.5 cents.

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm