Originally Posted By: BrightFuture

I cried last night after he left. I called one of my GFs and talked to her for a while. She tried to console me. This morning she left me a message and pretty much told me that she can’t stand me hurting anymore and I should just cut him off completely, end it, tell him that he cannot leave his car here, and so on. She told me that I need to move on.

So, I’m losing my friends’ support. This board is the only place I can express my feeling freely from now on. I wish I would get more responses from the veterans. Maybe my sitch is just so hopeless… But, I’m very grateful to everyone who’s taken time to read my sitch and give me some advice, or just hugs…


Oh BF, please don't feel that your situation is hopeless or that you are losing your friend's support. Your husband has done nothing but talk talk talk, no action. He says he is trying to separate things like the cell phone but is not. How difficult is it to get a new cell phone account? You can get one online for crying out loud. He is procrastinating. Don't worry. Don't feel hopeless.

And don't worry about your friend's advice. You know she only said that because she cares about you. You are not losing her friendship or support, she just does not understand, and does not want to see you in so much pain. Hang in there BrightFuture, there is truly a Bright Future for you, and for all of us!

I have my first DB coaching tonight at 9 pm! Nervous!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17