tx guys... I feel I ended it with him in an ultimatum, to which he declined (sort of).... I am saying that I want him to be able to commit fully to "piecing", and he cannot with committment. I think he wants to want to do it on his own.


I suggested a "chance" and then he texted me about positives of his message (not sure what they are to him).



should I respond to his text then, by saying:

"I understand that you are confused and are having difficulty with what you are feeling. However, I too am confused and lonely. I feel good about myself and my changes. ILY but will understand and move on.

or should I ask him about the "positives" that he feels I went the other way with?

Im pretty certain that he wants me to reply to him....

I just want to curl up and die now... I dont want to do this anymore! I want to go HOME. If we cannot be a family any more, I need a break... I dont care about the business right now! I must save me first!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)